For You

I attended a church service recently and the pastor spoke about women and how strong we were made to be and that we’re chosen. Chosen applies to both male & female! Another point was that we should be there for one another instead of bringing one another down. It felt one good to hear that from a man’s point of view and two it reminded me of the true reason behind the name “Chosen-daughters”.

 About a month or two before starting my blog I found a wallpaper background on Pinterest that said you are chosen. Knowing you’re chosen is a feeling every human wants but don’t always feel they get. I felt the same way until I saw that wallpaper background, it reminded I’m not just chosen by anyone but chosen by someone SO special, GOD. Chosen because I’m loved and valued. There’s nothing I must do to earn being chosen by Him. No matter what human denies me, I’m still chosen by the one and only God. Guess what? So are you! It’s so hard to grasp sometimes that no matter what your past says, what people say, the sin you do, God will still choose you! So, when God told me to start a blog a couple months later I said okay. Next step was what to name it? He said chosen-daughters! I thought why? Then I remembered because that’s what I am and that’s what other women should know too. God chose you! “You have not chosen Me, but I have chosen you…” (John 15:16). Also, God is our Father and we’re His daughters (2 Corinthians 6:18). So, to the daughter who doesn’t feel chosen I say this prayer for you.

You’re chosen, special possession of the one and true living God (1 Peter 2:9). God made no mistake when He made you and everything you have done and will do will never change His mind about you. People may leave or hurt you, but God will ALWAYS remain true. He will always be with you holding your hand through it all. He wants you to love others as well. He doesn’t want you to tear down your sister in Christ. He made us sisters to help one another (Galatians 1:6-3). No man can stop what God has for you. You’re above and not beneath (Deuteronomy 28:13). You will lend and not borrow (Deuteronomy 15:6). Whenever you feel you serve no purpose, you’ve screwed up too much, you’re alone, you’re unworthy, remember God chose you and He didn’t choose you in vain. Amen!

God loves you more than you know

I love you and remember you’re Chosen, Bianca Brown

Let’s Talk

I know we’re all friends so that means I can be vulnerable with y’all. So, the past couple weeks I’ve been in and out of a funk (a feeling of being down and sad and not knowing exactly why). I’m sure we all go through that from time to time, it varies for everyone. However, if we take the time out to analyze our emotions we may see where it’s all stemming from. It could be from something not going our way, we can’t see what’s next, or we don’t entirely understand the season we’re in, etc.

For me, I feel God has shown me things for my future and I can’t see how it is going to happen with the current season I’m in. As exciting as it is to have mystery, it’s also frustrating at times. It’s extremely frustrating when you aren’t completely content in your current season. It’s like God how can you show me this next step or plant these ideas in me now?? It’s already a battle to be motivated in this current season. Don’t y’all feel that way at times? Or maybe it’s just me. Well as I write this, I realize two things.

1.    Everything you need for this season is positioned exactly how it should be. This high or this low in this season is preparation for the next. We lack nothing! God is faithful and ALWAYS keeps His promises… “not one word has failed of all the good things that the LORD our God promises concerning you. All have come to pass for you; not one of them has failed” (Joshua 23:14).

2.    Contentment! Be content in the season you’re in, you’re in it for a reason. That doesn’t mean to be complacent(not working to improve) but find joy in your season. Don’t live a life based off emotions because they’re constantly wavering, trust me. Lean on God’s understanding and He will direct your path. 

Not everything is meant to be understood. Trust the process and most importantly trust God. God is birthing something inside of you friend! It may be uncomfortable, it may not always be easy but DON’T ABORT THE PROCESS! I write this to encourage your beautiful soul (and myself haha)! Comment, what steps you take to push forward in your season!

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God loves you more than you know

I love you and remember you’re Chosen, Bianca Brown